The people you want to meet are closer than you think. Discover who's open to connecting, whether you're planning ahead or meeting spontaneously, and make the first step effortless with a thoughtful gesture. From friends and colleagues to mentors and professionals.
Launching in Haarlem · 2026
ShareCareDare is a social platform where you buy someone a coffee or cocktail, they redeem it at a local partner venue, and the conversation begins. Built for all types of connections — friends catching up, parents from the same school meeting for coffee, professionals networking, or neighbours getting to know each other.
Choose someone from your contacts, nearby people, or community. Pick a drink from the venue's menu, add a personal note if you want, and send it. They receive a notification and can accept or pass. If they accept, they get a QR code to redeem at the venue within 1 week.
Once accepted, a private chat opens between you and the recipient. They receive a QR code valid for 1 week, which they can redeem at the selected partner venue. The conversation starts from there.
Yes, and that's completely fine. If someone passs (we call it "No, thanks"), your tokens are fully refunded. A cooldown period prevents unwanted repeated gestures. You can block or report anyone at any time.
The recipient gets a QR code on their phone. They show it to staff at the partner venue, the code is scanned, payment confirmed, drink served. Takes 2 seconds.
We're starting as ShareCare20 — 20 carefully selected venues in Haarlem for our beta launch. You serve, scan, get paid.
Only 20 spots in Haarlem · Carefully selected · Free to join
For our beta we only accept 20 venues in Haarlem — exclusive and carefully selected for our closed community during the beta phase. Do you want to be part of this adventure?
All fields are mandatory · No costs or commitments
Buy tokens. Send drinks. 1 token = 1 euro.
We're launching with a small group of people who value real connection. Request your invite code and be among the first.
Free to join · No spam · Haarlem Q3 2026
Every beta member gets a personal referral code. When a friend joins with your code, you both earn bonus tokens.
We're launching in Haarlem, Netherlands in Q3 2026 with a select group of partner venues. More cities will follow based on community demand. Founded by proud Haarlemers, built for local bubbles first.
Yes. The app is free to download and use. You only spend money when you buy tokens to send drinks. There is no subscription or monthly fee required.
Yes — ShareCareDare is an exclusive networking platform. Invite codes ensure quality connections and a trusted community. You can request one from an existing member or apply through our website. This keeps the experience genuine and intentional.
Absolutely. ShareCareDare is designed for bubbles — startups, school parent groups, sports clubs, friend circles, neighbourhood groups. Create a bubble, invite members, and connect through gestures.
You control your visibility. You control your visibility. Your profile is only shown to other members. You can block or report anyone at any time.
Register for free in the app or email [email protected]. No contracts, no monthly fees, no upfront costs. You set your own menu and prices. We bring you pre-paid customers.
When a guest shows their QR code, your staff scans it and the full menu price is released to your account at the end of the month. You always receive the price you set — the 10% service fee is charged to the sender, not the venue.
No. The 10% fee is added on top of your menu price and paid by the sender. If your cocktail is 18 tokens, you receive 18 tokens. The sender pays 19.8 tokens total. Your revenue is never touched.
Yes. You can create staff accounts for your bartenders and servers. They download the app, log in with their staff credentials, and can scan QR codes instantly. No special equipment needed — just a phone.
1 token = 1 euro. You buy token packs in the app (via iDEAL, card, or Apple Pay) and use them to send drinks. Tokens are held until the drink is accepted and redeemed. If passed or expired, tokens are fully refunded.
A 10% fee is added to each drink you send. This fee covers the platform, payment processing, and keeps the app free for everyone. It's only charged after the drink is accepted — never on passed or expired gestures.
Your tokens are refunded in full — including the service fee. You only pay when a drink is accepted and redeemed. Zero risk.
We support iDEAL (for Dutch bank accounts), credit/debit cards (Visa, Mastercard, Amex), and Apple Pay. All payments are processed securely through Stripe.
No. Tokens cannot be converted back to money or transferred to another person. They can only be used to send drinks through the app. Unused tokens expire after 1 year from the date of purchase.
Yes, you need to accept or pass the invite within 24 hours after it is sent. Once accepted, you have one month to redeem it at the venue. If not redeemed in time, tokens are automatically refunded to the sender.
During signup, we verify your date of birth. Users under 18 cannot receive or send alcoholic beverages — only non-alcoholic options like coffee, juice, or tea are available to them.
All data is stored on EU servers (Frankfurt, Germany) in compliance with GDPR. You can export, correct, or delete your data at any time through the app settings. We never sell your data to third parties.
Yes. You can block any user at any time — they won't be able to send you drinks or see your profile. You can also report inappropriate behaviour, and our team reviews reports promptly.
We're building something special for communities which we call it bubbles. More details coming soon.